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my boyfirend broke up with me after 5 months mélissa
sarah, set un mec sa invente n'importe quoi pour evite la verité, as tu esseignier de le contacter pour avoir un peu plus d'esplication, de tout facon sa voulai dir que s'ete pas le bon sa faisai 5mois se n'est pas comme si sa faisait 2, 3 ans aller courage tu finira pas trouvai quelqu'un qui t'aime vraiman
bidule (moderatrice)
dear sarah, (would you please , forgive my poor english...)
could you tell how old are you ? i'm so sorry for you , through what you say , i think i understand , that this boy gave up because he feared to be abandonned the first, ... so he probably suffers a missing of selfconfidence, may be he has been hurted yet very strong by someone who let him... are you still in contact with him? can you let him a kind of message to ask him a deep explanation... maybe he saw through your behaviour some kind of things that made him fear...and that you couldn't suspect, maybe you didn't say or do anything that objectivaly is bad,... it's probably not your fault... many guys are frigtened about the simple idea of any kind of engagement, i mean investing ..., and give up seams to be the only way out to not build something... bidule
Dear Sarah,
I'm not so estonisched about what he said you ... I read this 'try to be friend', not like I want to try you , but like 'i'ts hard to be friend when you have or had been in love' and that is so obvious , don't you think? If everything is finished, may be you could become friend after a long time without any contact to repare eachselves heart before a new kind of relationship... but just after a love afaire it 's something huge to ask the guy ! If you ask it in order to try to get him back , it's not very honest you understand... Now the point is , does he yet love you or not , and if he does what kind of new departure can you imagine to build together? and that would be hard to deal by texto ! I realy wish you good luck in this hard moment for you, and hope you will manage to have a real deep and honest conversation together. Bidule
Dear Sarah,
To be honest , I don't think that it would be the best for you now. You seems to be marked by this story that has just turned off. Maybe you need e little break to let your heart heal. Moreover, there are some risks. First is to bless you again and someone in a relationship in which you could not be realy available and free . Then you may enter in a bad circle where a love affair must always replace another one and that would bless you again and again and wouldn't help you to learn to build something deep, solid and strong with The guy of your life... because trust and self confidence are hurted and weaked at each breaking up... and it takes time to fix oneself from that ... what do you think? Bidule
Dear Sarah,
I'm afraid there's not much to do... was he clear about the breaking? if not , call him to have the converation you need, exchange pardons, put new engagements ... deal for a periode of try ... I don't konw... if it was clear that everything is finished as far as he's concerned, you can only make the time do its job... heal and invest you in friendships, works , hobbies, to forget and retake selfconfidence and joy. 
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